My lovely humans, if you were intrigued by the notion that virginity is in fact a heteronormative social construct, then this is a book for YOU!
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Delusions of… Grandeur, I guess?
I saw a photo of myself at a networking event, and my first thought was THIS IS NOT GOOD. I look enormous. And I was confused, because I don’t *feel* enormous, and I don’t see myself that way when I look in the mirror. I was genuinely confused: my brain was having a proper “does…
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Well, that’s an awkward search history…
Dear few who read this blog, I must share with you a little story I heard earlier this evening. My MFEOBFF (made for each other best friend forever) and I met for a little dinner and a catch up this evening. After a lot of dinner, the Mandy Moo shared with me that today she…
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Of *course* someone has invented a VR/AI sex toy for men.
Now, I respect everyone’s right to get their rocks off, but I think the way this new sex toy is being marketed is perhaps a touch too “woke”.
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Forgive my fuzziness, I forgot to care.
“Oh, god, I’m sorry – I completely forgot to shave my legs. I’m single at the moment, so it’s just not been on my radar. Please excuse my fuzziness.”
Can you guess who I said this to?
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That time I didn’t have herpes.
I’m going to tell you about that time that I didn’t have herpes.  It was a totally awesome and lazy diagnosis, because I was 24 and sexually active.
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Lady Garden Landscaping? Pluck no!
We have eyebrows to stop sweat/dirt/nasties from running into our eyes. Pubic hair performs a similar function.
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Sex Should Not Be Painful: The Stigma of Vaginismus
I’m lucky that it was secondary vaginismus -it was psychosomatic, and therefore easier to treat that primary vaginismus.
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Recommended Read – Ruby Wax, Sane New World
If you are actively trying to get pregnant, most doctors will tell you to try naturally for 12 months. They’ll also ask about your stress levels. This might seem like a brush off, but it is honestly difficult to conceive when you’re highly stressed.
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No one gets to tell you what to do with your body.
It’s the most horrible thing when your signifcant other pressures you into changing so that they continue to find you attractive.
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